i have been such a miserable blogger of late~such moaning!
yesterday, probably because i had such a horrid previous night~spending an hour locked in the bath room being very sick indeed, which also meant i couldn't take my tablets as my tummy wouldn't even tolerate water, i had difficult day.
but as i perked up during the afternoon i started to read a whole ream of writing i downloaded from the druid network as well as another chapter from philip carr-gomm's 'the rebirth of druidry'.
as the day darkened i lit my lamp that sits in the corner of the room that is 'my' corner
*do you have your own part of a room? a spot where you sit and where your own things gather?*
in my corner at this time i have my phone, my moleskine, a bowl which holds my glasses case and a pen sitting alongside my lamp.
on the pine chest that sits in front of the floor to ceiling window are my green man oracle, a bill bryson book and on a footstool in front of this sits my two bags of crochet~my corner of our room
i also lit the three candles on my mantle/alter and drew the curtains against the darkening chill.
i continued to read and think.
the words i read and the thoughts and pondering that the words stirred in me has helped a page turn in my life.
i have realised there is no point in fighting the things that i cannot change~like my illness's~yes i can help them by taking my medication (as much as i hate too in this i have no option) but ultimately i have to live with them, day to day.
but i realised that i cannot let the negativity that they, and other things, bring out in me, to rule my life (thank you juilana for making me think of this!)
today i feel good~i am keeping all the symptoms of my illnesses firmly in the background of my mind~i cannot wipe them out with medication nor totally ignore them~but i wont let them get the better of me, wont let it all overwhelm me and distract me from better things.
~for i have so many good things in my life~
i have a soul partner who loves, supports me and accepts me as i am
i can afford to pay the bills each month
i have a roof over my head...and a garden
i live in a very special,ancient forest where branches of my ancestor tree grow back hundreds and hundreds of years
there is much more to add to this list, but you get the idea.
i feel more peaceful today, settled and even better, by fighting the negativity and embracing the positivity, i feel i have rediscovered the track i have been following through the woods
5 comments:
glad you are feeling positive once again Laoi, its really good to take stock sometimes. I too occasionally feel down, but then try to look at all the good things i have around me- its very healing to realise that things arent so gloomy afterall.
Leanne x
I think you are a very strong lady xx
i love the attitude you have in this post. it is so timely in reminding us how to look at our situations in a better way.
since i live alone, my whole house is my little corner :)
i hope you are feeling well today.
blessings
~*~
I don't think we can be grateful for the good in our lives all the time. But that moment when you suddenly remember is like pulling a nice woolen shawl around you and snuggling up, and it is always there waiting for us.
Such a beautiful thing, this realization that you control your happiness or sadness or other emotion! I'm so happy for you, as you sound so much more peaceful and at home in your soul. Much love to you, and I do hope things only continue to get better for you!
Juliana
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